Each year for my birthday I take a moment to reflect and give thanks. I give myself a week or so to disconnect. I tried once for 30 days but the frustration of every day life getting in the way of me just Be-In-g, was just too much. So now its a tradition of 14 days. Two whole weeks of no internet, no social media, no regular news feeds and limited texting. Only real true connections. Phone calls or visits and dialogue about stuff that feeds me, strengthens me and supports me. All starting with a laid out mediation plan and thoughts of what I want to happen in my own personal new year.
The year 2015 was a little like many others but with some major life changes. This personal “New Year” was so needed. So along with the “disconnection” of the mundane day to day. I actually took 7 days away for vacation.
Without the excess stimuli that goes on outside of me. I was able to see things a little clearer. Embrace things a little tighter. And speak a little louder. While taking a minute to take pleasure in the vibrant colors of life and smell the applicable “roses” meant for me. Eating all my favorite foods (within moderation) and trying some new things that have now been added to my flavor palate. I am/was able to actually enjoy and connect to those around me. Being fully involved in the things that give me pleasure. Purposefully being in my mindfullness. Every day was a private party, that had an exclusive guest list . I only invited key things and key people to this party. I celebrated my “New Year” getting tuned in and turnt-up.
One of the people invited to this “private party” was my Sis-Star Butterfly. Butterfly (Tracy Clark) is an Urban Shaman that specializes in getting people back in alignment with themselves. Her services include but are not limited to Chakra readings and activation. How fitting was it that I was called within myself to make this a necessity. That I paid her a visit, right before I had to get back to my regular day to day. With the personal touches of the fresh brewed tea and incense smoke, we dove into a reading to lay out what my blockages are/were. And how to move forward with daily affirmations, meditation and focus. In this reading Butterfly saying, “Sis, you are turnt-up”, was further confirmations that this visit was right on track with how I was moving. In alignment in what is meant for me. (Turnt-up was the name of this piece when I started writing it a week prior). Yes, I am!
Happy New Year To Me!
So, while we’re all saying goodbye to the years past as a whole. Why not take a minute just for you. Wash away all those things that aren’t yours. Get rid of all the noise that doesn’t sound like your voice. Without all the extra fanfare and revelry and excess chatter. Celebrate your very own New Year. Make it a private party. Maybe even stretch your wings and try something different. But do what you like to do. Listen to what is calling you. If only for one full day or a couple hours, take this time to go within. Tune-In and get Turnt-Up. This is YOUR New Year!